What special issues do I need to take into consideration when getting a senior divorce?

What special issues do I need to think about when getting a senior divorce? My wife and I are really no longer compatible. We are both so set in our ways, and now that I am home all the time since I retired we have realized that some of our habits really annoy the other person. We want to get a divorce, and we want to make sure that we don’t miss any details we need to be sure to discuss. Are there lawyers that specialize in this kind of divorce that could help us work through this so that we both get a fair deal?